The word is out, Scottsdale has become apparently the COUGAR capital.  Young barely men are approaching my girlfriends & I when we are out. The latest incidence was interesting we were eating in a nice restaurant minding our own business when this young guy ( the youngest I have had the pleasure of being flirted with) comes over & asks us how our food is? [...]

            Dating at this stage is not for the faint of heart !  I personally have been out with almost every tool in the shed, the one with the loose screw, the flat tire that needs a pump, the one that gets hammered, then there’s the dust collecting mower & I never saw the miter saw coming!  [...]

         When a woman feels SAFE  it is not just about security. I had a girlfriend tell a man she was dating right after her divorce she felt SAFE with him. He became alarmed thinking her ex husband may be stalking her, he thought he might come after him. What he did not understand at the time [...]

People often ask me how I stay so thin a friend just asked me at lunch today… Haven’t you heard it is the Humble Pie diet I have been on. I have been eating humble pie weekly, sometimes even daily for the past several months…. Seriously I can’t keep weight on!  The recipe is as follows: Begin with a ready made pie crust from [...]

     It dawned on me like a light bulb illuminating in complete darkness, after all these years, multiple degrees & life experiences the only person that can really heal you is YOU! All the counselors, friends & money in the world can guide you, give you great advice but in the end the only person that can make the real difference & the changes is [...]

        People ask me how I am doing with all the changes that have been going on in my life…. to that I say….” sometimes you just have to trust that change is good & that everything happens for a reason”. The first year of my divorce was ” crazy town”  my friends & I can laugh about it now…. but believe me I [...]