PISTOL PETE…

         When a woman feels SAFE  it is not just about security. I had a girlfriend tell a man she was dating right after her divorce she felt SAFE with him. He became alarmed thinking her ex husband may be stalking her, he thought he might come after him. What he did not understand at the time is that she was trying to tell him she felt SAFE with him in an emotional way, she thought he was honest & had integrity, she began to open up to him, it had nothing to do with security issues!! Although women do want & need to feel protected by their partner physically if they are in harms way, we also need to more importantly feel SAFE  in an emotional way. We need to be able to trust our partner when we fall in love & know that we are cherished!!  So if and when a woman tells a man they feel SAFE  it is a GOOD THING….it doesn’t mean you need to go packing a pistol for Pete’s sake!!